From There To Here
Richa Joshi · 79 min
A leadership coach who learned to shrink across four countries finally unlearns that silence — and now helps other muted women of colour do the same.
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Richa Joshi grew up moving between India, Germany, the United States, and Australia. Early on, she learned that silence felt like safety. Moving between cultures taught her to shrink, to self-edit, to disappear into whichever place she landed. As an adult, she realised she'd internalised silence not as a choice but as survival. Later, working in corporate spaces and community settings, she noticed the same pattern in other women around her: brilliant, capable people who'd learned to make themselves small.
Becoming a parent broke something open. Richa caught herself repeating the cultural patterns and expectations she'd resisted as a young person, patterns she'd promised herself she would never pass on. That moment shifted everything. She began doing the work to unlearn what had been handed down to her, and now she helps other women of colour do the same. The work is tender, messy, and slow. It means questioning inherited stories, sitting with shame and fear, and learning to show up more authentically in a world that often punishes women for speaking up.
Richa also challenges how migrants are expected to adapt alone. Real belonging, she argues, is mutual. Both cultures evolve; both sides do the work. She examines the model minority myth, the invisible hierarchy that says certain groups are inherently hardworking or docile, and how this polite form of oppression masks racism while dividing communities. Her core message is simple: you are not broken or powerless. You are buried under lived experiences and cultural conditioning. Listen to yourself the way you wish others would listen to you. That listening is where everything changes.
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