Sherrie Laryse learned time management from Stephen Covey's Seven Habits, but her real education came through living. After seven years of trying to conceive and then facing lung surgery for a condition doctors couldn't explain, she discovered something more valuable than the outcomes she'd hoped for: a way to move through hard things without being destroyed by them.
When her lung kept collapsing without any clear reason, Sherrie resisted surgery. She had always trusted her body to heal itself. But that resistance mirrored an earlier decision not to pursue IVF, and it forced her to ask a harder question: was trusting her body actually serving her, or was it just another way of avoiding what she needed to do? Before surgery, she did something unconventional. She meditated with her lung, giving it a voice and preparing it for what was coming. It wasn't magical thinking. It was a way of meeting her own resistance with curiosity instead of denial.
What changed everything was a surgeon's blunt words: hope does nothing. Sherrie realized he was right. When she stopped hoping for a particular surgical outcome and accepted that whatever her body needed was what it would get, she found instant peace. That shift from hoping things will work out to accepting what is turned out to be more nourishing than any temporary relief. Through meditation, she also found grief sitting underneath everything, and learned to have actual conversations with it. Now she teaches emotional intelligence and writes books designed to help readers find meaning in their own obstacles by getting lost in someone else's story first.
⚠️ Content advisory: this episode discusses grief & loss, which some listeners may find distressing.
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